Built for calmer conversations

Helping separated parents raise happier children.

Keep arrangements, messages, expenses and important child information organised in one calm and secure place.

No card required. Works on mobile and desktop.

Communication Coach

You're late again and you never think about anyone else.

Suggested rewrite

Today's handover was later than the agreed time. Please could we keep to the agreed time for future handovers?

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Shared calendar

Parenting time, handovers, school, health and holidays — colour-coded and clear.

Coached messages

Optional tone check helps calmer, child-focused phrasing before you send.

Expenses & contributions

Track school, medical and activity costs. Request, respond and record payments.

Private document vault

Share what matters, keep private what should stay private.

Family space

One place for both parents (and carers) to coordinate the essentials.

Privacy first

Your address and phone stay private unless you choose otherwise.

Calm by design. Child-focused throughout.

ChildApart is not a courtroom, a scoreboard or a surveillance tool. It's a warm, private space that helps two homes work better for one child.

"The suggested rewrite completely changed the tone of a message I nearly sent. Handovers have been calmer ever since."
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A calmer week starts today.

Create your family space in under a minute.